This is a guest post by first-time full marathoner Lydia Godfrey Donovan.
“Why do you run?”
This is a common question asked of runners because we all have our own personal reasons for loving the sport so much. It’s fun, and many times very inspiring, to find out what really motivates each runner to hit the pavement several times a week, reaching mileage of 26.2 or even more sometimes! “I run so I can eat what I want”, “I run because I can”, “I run because it’s cheaper than therapy”, “I run in memory of a loved one”, “I run to raise money for a great cause”, “I run because I beat a disease”…and so many more, these are just some of the ones that quickly come to mind.
My own reason for running is very personal, “I run to prove to my body that it IS capable of something amazing” (with a little of “so I can eat what I want” & “because it’s cheaper than therapy” too!). My desire to run a marathon in particular has absolutely been fueled by my need to prove this exact statement to my body! I’ve been dealing with Primary Infertility for 4 years now and I am so sick and tired of feeling like my body is failing me time and time again. It’s like my mind and my body have been separated for several years now and it’s time for them to unite for a change!
Although, running for over 4 hours straight will not give me what I have ultimately been longing for, it will bring me a much needed sense of physical accomplishment. It will mean that I set out to achieve a goal for myself that most people would call a little crazy and I will find SUCCESS instead of failure for a change. The training alone has already allowed me to feel some control in my life again after so many years of feeling so helplessly out of control. I think about our TTC (trying to conceive) struggles a lot while I run; I also think about the race day itself. I know that every step I take that day will be empowering, healing and full of reconnection of mind, body and soul for me. This race means so much to me and I know it will be a very emotional finish. There may be some tears of pain, but most will be happy tears of “Wow! Look what you just accomplished!”.
I know I will not be the only woman, or person for that matter, who will be running to prove my same statement to their own bodies. The mental healing aspect of running has been a life saver to me on many occasions and I know many runners have similar experiences. We all face situations we are powerless over, fertility related and beyond, but it’s important to keep perspective on what we DO have control over. I for one, cannot wait for race day to feel a level of accomplishment I haven’t felt in awhile!
Best of luck to all my fellow Columbus Marathon runners, for not only accomplishing your race day goals, but in also finding success in the struggles and challenges life will throw at you! Remember, if life starts to get you down, just throw on those running shoes!
Happy Running!


